How Team Sports Have Prepared Me for College, Career & Life

The following is a guest post from our Seth Seelye,'s 2018 summer intern and an Integrated Marketing Communications sophomore at the University of Mississippi. 

They say diamonds are a girl’s best friend, but as a young boy, diamonds were my first love. My passion was born about 15 years ago on the baseball diamond, where I was introduced to America’s favorite pastime and the greatest sport ever created.

As a kid, baseball was the source of all my most vivid fantasies. I would lie awake at night dreaming of hitting the walk-off homerun in game 7 of the World Series or going down in the hall of fame next to Babe Ruth and Ken Griffey Jr. 

Could anything ever be sweeter?

Over the years, those fantasies motivated me to take my game to the next level. After a few seasons, I was playing travel baseball against the best players in my area – as well as boys from across the country. 

As a kid playing sports and dreaming about the big leagues, I thought my dreams would all just eventually materialize. It wasn’t until I was a teenager that I really understood and appreciated the meaning of the hard work required. 

Growing up as an athlete with a passion and commitment to a sport builds key qualities that carry over into every aspect of life. As a college student who will soon join the work force, I expect the experiences and skills I’ve built as an athlete will help me hit a home run as an employee. Among the most notable strengths I've gained?

Discipline –

Realizing that you have to train hard and grind your tail off to improve every aspect of your game is hard to accept at first, but it’s a necessity. If you don’t train, you’ll fall behind the competition. It’s a basic formula and, for me, a powerful motivator.  

As my father always told me, “Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard.” It was a tough lesson to learn. It wasn’t until middle school that I realized there was no way I could compete with pitchers who are six feet tall and throwing 75 miles per hour naturally unless I trained myself to get stronger and better. The same goes in the workplace. There’s always another talented person waiting for their shot at the next great assignment or promotion.

Discipline and hard work are skills that will be evident to others and help keep you at the front of the pack.

Teamwork –

Nobody wins – or loses – a baseball game on their own. All the work, all of the coaching, hitting, running, pitching in the world means nothing if you are a player facing a field of nine all alone. A strong team means everything – they boost you up, celebrate your victories and defeats, and most importantly, make it possible to achieve every good thing. Be the person everybody wants to have on their team.

Resilience and Humility –

You won a game? Good, now be humble and look at what mistakes you made and what you can improve on. You lost? Great, remember how this feels and work even harder so it won’t happen again. Just like you need to train harder to beat a strong opponent in sports, you must work harder and smarter in your professional life if you want a that promotion or coveted opportunity. 

The parallels between sports and many real-life situations are endless. Just about every concrete lesson learned from sports can be applied to life outside of sports, and I look forward to doing so as I step out into my professional career.

With the amazing fun and lessons I’ve learned from playing sports, I know that whatever gets thrown at me in life, I can conquer it.

Photo: Provided by Seth Seelye (Yep, that's him!)

5 Moves That Can Sink Even the Most Promising Job Interview

This blog post comes to us from our own Karen Friesen, senior copywriter and customer service extraordinaire.

You got the call. You got the call!! That company you’re itching to work for loved your resume and cover letter (or so it seems). Now you’ve got 48 hours to get ready for a big interview and you are SO PSYCHED!!

Deep breaths. Deep breaths. Head between the knees…annnd go! You’ve got work to do.

While all signs are strong that you’re coming in hot on this job opportunity, there are a few classic bad moves job seekers make that can sink even the most promising candidates. Here are five, and what to do instead:

1. Guessing on the Dressing

Ever notice how one company's business casual is another's Sunday's best? Do you know how people roll at the company you're walking into? You need to. You want to make it very clear right out of the gates that you're polished and put together, and someone who's going to fit in around the joint.

Rather than just guessing (and risking either under-dressing or over-dressing), try asking the person coordinating your interview for some tips on dress code. Or, worst case, do a little investigating online (social media is your best friend for this). What do their people wear at work? Observe then bump up your game a notch or two (not 15) from there. 

2. Assuming You Can Wing It

Your competition is not winging it. I'm going to put that out there right now. On these grounds alone, you shouldn't plan to simply free-wheel it. Surely, you want to go in and have a genuine, engaging and not over-rehearsed conversation, but you've got to do your homework. 

What is their history or mission? What's their core focus? Who are their competitors? What have they achieved recently? What do you know about their corporate culture? 

Also, what might you say if they bust out the, "So, tell me about yourself" or "What's your greatest weakness?" (Which, invariably, they will.)

You spent the time and energy to capture their attention. Spend the time and energy to take this baby the distance.

(And, check this out if you need help answering 5 Super Common Job Interview Questions.) 

3. Making it All About You

One thing’s for sure: at this stage in the game, the people doing the interviewing care almost exclusively about what you can walk through their doors and deliver. In other words, they care about what's in it for them. Certainly, they will care a lot about what you want (and work like hell to convince you to join them) if you're the best fit. And they'll fall over themselves to keep you happy once you've proven your value. 

But at the early interview stages, they need to know what you can deliver. What problems can you solve? How will you make their lives easier? How will you help make the boss look good? How will you help them be successful?

Walk in ready to showcase these things instead. Sit tight (for now) on the laundry list of questions related to benefits, vacation time, cell phone allowance and access to the corporate jet. 

4. Being Disconnected or Disrespectful 

The dreaded D's can surely sink you. What are some of the most common ones? Showing up late is high on this list, but also ... showing up too early. No one wants to feel the pressure of knowing you're sitting in the lobby 40 minutes before your agreed upon start time. Sure, you want to get to the building in plenty of time, but don't walk in more than 10 minutes early.

Also, don't have your cell phone on (or visible) during the meeting. Nothing says, "I'm only halfway listening" more than someone who can't bear to cut the iPhone umbilical cord for an hour. 

Another thing that'll come across as disconnected is if you're so busy waiting to blurt out answers to the questions you've practiced for hours, that you flat-out miss the opportunity to have a genuine, engaged conversation with the person across the desk.

Be aware that you're being evaluated for more than just hard evidence that you're the right fit. They're also looking for someone who has emotional intelligence, social decorum and an ability to connect with others.

5. Forgetting the (Timely) Thank You

Let's talk about the (true) tale of two candidates. They were neck and neck right up to the final interviews and the hiring team was having a heck of a time deciding who to choose.  At the end of the last interview, Candidate 1 sent each person on the interview panel a customized, immediate thank you note. Candidate 2 figured, "Eh, I've said thank you three times already. It's not necessary at this point."

Guess who got the job offer? Yep. And guess what it came down to? Yep. The thank you note.

Thank you always matters. In this case, it mattered a whole lot.

Don't be Candidate 2. The moment you leave that interview and get back to your computer, thank the interviewer for her time and express your continued interest in the opportunity. This is also a great way to fill in any gaps, provide information you may have left out when you met in person and reiterate why you are a fantastic fit for the job.

(Need help writing it? Check out How to Nail the Thank You Note After the Interview.)

And last, but certainly not least ... once you've laid out your best effort in a job interview, don't freak out if there's radio silence for a few days. (Ask before you leave the interview what their timeline is, though.) It's common.

Companies often have the best intentions when it comes to wrapping up their decision on new hires, but all sorts of stuff can slow down the process -- vacations, further thought on the job description, making sure budget is there, demanding workloads, etc. 

Keep on their radar, keep your wits about you, and know that the right one is out there.

Control what you can control (which is plenty), and don't get all coiled up over what you can't. 

Photo: Flickr Creative Commons (Live Zakynthos)


How to Figure Out Which Keywords to Use on Your Resume

Everyone talks a fair game about the importance of keywords (as they should -- they're important). But, how do you know which ones you're supposed to use on your resume? 

Here's a quick trick that our team uses when working on resumes for our clients.

And, if you're interested in the word cloud software I reference in the video, you can get to it right HERE

Should I Put an Objective Statement on My Resume?

Happy Friday! A very quick answer to a very common question: Should I put an Objective on my resume?

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Why Having Too Many Options Open Can Hurt Your Job Search

Have you sat down, maybe recently, to create or update your resume -- only to find yourself paralyzed because you're afraid to hard-angle it toward one particular type of role?

Maybe you're thinking, "I just want to keep all of my options open right now."

And that's understandable. Options are great. In fact, I'm on a plane as I write this and the flight attendant just asked me if I wanted regular vodka or grapefruit vodka. (YES, turns out grapefruit vodka is a thing. And, be assured, I went with it.)

My point -- You don't want to be so stringent in your mindset that you miss out on something unexpectedly great, just because you were locked in on that ONE thing. 

However (You knew a "but" was coming) ... 

If you try to keep piles of possibilities open for yourself ("I think I want to work in digital marketing, but I might want to go back into operations. And I really love teaching, so maybe I should be a trainer ..."), it's going to be incredibly hard to create a resume that makes it instantly clear to the people on the receiving end how and why you make sense.

And, if you don't make sense to the decision makers (very quickly), guess where your resume goes?

Into the big, fat NO pile.

And that's one option you for sure aren't aiming for.

(BTW, the grapefruit vodka? Oh, heck yes.)

The bummer reality is that, even though we all really wish that those reviewing our resumes would magically connect the dots for us -- and make the correlations between what we've done and what we could do? They're not going to.

They won't, because they don't have to. For every role you apply for, there's going to be one, five or 25 other people in the mix who have resumes that make it very easy for the reviewer to see an obvious skills and experience match.

These are the people who will land the interview first.

These are the people who speak directly to the target audience. They've studied what the jobs they're applying for require, and what potential employers value, and they're introducing themselves as a "smack-in-the-forehead" obvious match.

They aren't trying to cover all of their bases.

They aren't trying to keep all options open. 

They understand that, when you try to speak to multiple, disparate audience at once, you dilute the power of your message across every single channel. 

These are the people you're competing with, for every job. 

So you've got to bring your A-game.

That said, if you've been trying to keep multiple options open (for fear of missing out on something), here's what you might do instead:

Choose an Avenue A.

What's the most likely or most desired next move for you? Consider making this your main focus for the next 30 days (or whatever time increment works for you). 

When you do this, it becomes so much easier to craft a resume that speaks directly to your target audience, and illustrates how you line up with the most common deliverables for that type of job.

It will also simplify how you go about your search, because you won't feel completely overwhelmed as you look at marketing jobs, operations jobs, trainer jobs, etc.

But won't I miss out on something?

Probably not. Setting an Avenue A certainly doesn't mean you can't entertain other options should they present themselves (ahem, grapefruit vodka). Heavens, no.

Instead, it eases the process of creating or updating your resume, and will help keep you focused on a day-to-day basis.

You can always modify that core resume if an opportunity comes along that's a bit outside of your primary focus area. But, by having a target message, you'll make it a whole lot easier for people to "get" what you're all about.

And when people "get" you? 

You get the interview.


Photo: Flickr Creative Commons (Banalities